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Gorgo
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Posted - 05/16/2009 :  02:50:45  Show Profile Send Gorgo a Private Message  Reply with Quote
None of this proves anything, but I thought it was an interesting discussion with the comments below the essay.

In my not-so-humble opinion, AA is like any other cult. Yes it helps many sober up. Any "program" will have its successes. For many, however, it creates another kind of addiction.

And that addiction can be almost worse.

I know the rent is in arrears
The dog has not been fed in years
It's even worse than it appears
But it's alright-
Jerry Garcia
Robert Hunter



filthy
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Posted - 05/16/2009 :  04:16:31   [Permalink]  Show Profile Send filthy a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Years ago I too, did the program. It worked, at least up to a point. But I noticed something; for some members it was like a religious conversion.

I think that like religion, it appeals to a certain mind set and some few simply give up booze in favor of the Kool-Aid.




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Simon
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Posted - 05/18/2009 :  07:34:42   [Permalink]  Show Profile Send Simon a Private Message  Reply with Quote
AA, and other steps program, have a big religious element to it.
As well as a self-deprecating element and admonitions to 'surrender to a higher power', that would make it good fodder for a cult-like developement.

Penn and Teller did an episode on steps programs, they were not too impressed, as you probably imagine...

Look again at that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every "superstar," every "supreme leader," every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there – on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam.
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Ricky
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Posted - 05/18/2009 :  14:06:55   [Permalink]  Show Profile  Send Ricky an AOL message Send Ricky a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Makes me wonder if there are any such programs meant to empower a person, to encourage them to use their own strength to beat out an addiction.

Why continue? Because we must. Because we have the call. Because it is nobler to fight for rationality without winning than to give up in the face of continued defeats. Because whatever true progress humanity makes is through the rationality of the occasional individual and because any one individual we may win for the cause may do more for humanity than a hundred thousand who hug their superstitions to their breast.
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Kil
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Posted - 05/18/2009 :  17:45:59   [Permalink]  Show Profile  Visit Kil's Homepage  Send Kil an AOL message  Send Kil a Yahoo! Message Send Kil a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Originally posted by Ricky

Makes me wonder if there are any such programs meant to empower a person, to encourage them to use their own strength to beat out an addiction.

SOS: Secular Organizations for Sobriety

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Why not question something for a change?

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marfknox
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Posted - 05/18/2009 :  19:21:10   [Permalink]  Show Profile  Visit marfknox's Homepage  Send marfknox an AOL message Send marfknox a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I know a couple people who were helped by AA, but neither of them got obsessed or "addicted" to it. They just used it to the extent that it helped them by providing a structure for quitting a behavior that they did want to quit, and a support group of people who had a the same problem, and thus, could relate to them without judgment.

That said...

There is a cult-like element to AA for a lot of people. For three years I wrote an often controversial column for my student newspaper at Ohio State U. I wrote about gay rights, I wrote columns critical of religion (including one which criticized the Pope), but it is this column that I wrote criticizing AA (and if you read it, you'll see it is fairly mild criticism) that attracted far more hate mail than any other column I ever wrote. I was shocked.

"Recovery programs are lame, ineffective."

[Edited to fix link - Dave W.]

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